I mean keeping up with life, have you ever just stopped doing what you're doing to take a step back and just watch what is happening around you?
how are we supposed to know how we should feel and what to do at such a young age. People will tell you to keep on dreaming and to work for your dreams but most of them don't realize it how hard that is. You could just miss out, I mean you miss out on life when you constantly work and you don't see your friends anymore..
However, taking a step back and just rest for a bit without feeling judged would be great but that is also not really happening. Most of us just say we are too busy to just relax or go out at night. I think. we should just take a risk, I mean what is there to lose besides great memories you are missing out on, but I am one to talk about that...
Being afraid of the new is just human but we should stop looking for excuses to not go and find out what there is for us, what this life holds for us.
Take a step back, read a good book, relax and just be yourself. There will never be anything wrong with being yourself and if people think so, they don't belong in your life. And yes, it is hard to sort out all these thing, to lose people you thought who were really good friends to you but I guess this is all just a part of growing up. Losing, letting go and hurting, there will open another door right? You go through rough times, but don't we all?! I know it is hard to believe in the moment you lose someone but they only bring you down and they will bring out the worse in you, so just let it go and after a while it will be better. It will make sense. Eventually.
So, call an old friend or message them. Maybe it seems slightly weird and awkward in the beginning but maybe they were wondering what you were doing the past years and months. You will never know if you don't take that risk, you know. And even if they don't answer or respond, they will be happy that someone special from their past was still thinking of them because we all have our downs.
Tell people you love them, it doesn't matter if the one you are in love with right now doesn't love you the same way because they will appreciate you telling them. It's hard to believe that rejection is good for us. They are happy and glad someone loved them because how do they know you do, if you never say it.
Tell your friends how important they are to you, and even if they just say 'thank you but we are friends you don't have to tell me'. Secretly they are really happy and longing to hear it. How do I know? Well, I would be happy and I am happy if someone told me they are loving me for who I am. And with loving I mean in a friendly way. People don't understand that you love your friends and you can tell them you do and that you are glad to have them because it is important to you and if it is to you so it will to your friends.
Tomorrow, take just a few minutes for yourself, listen to your favorite music and relax. Tell someone how you feel about them because you will be happier and relieved after it.
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