Thoughts

Thoughts..

we all have a lot of them, eh? But we refuse to talk about them, some are afraid to show their feelings and to get rejected and some are just not for everybody to hear, maybe there are some you don't know about,..

Isn't it weird how literally everybody has so many thoughts but they refuse to talk about them,.. they don't want to hurt people or they don't want to get hurt.. but some people have too many thoughts, they are afraid of their thoughts. Those people are afraid to wake up because of their mind, they are telling themselves that they will never be good enough or they feel ugly but the point is those people are the ones who are there for everybody and smile no matter what.
You see, I mean we all are some kind of self conscious but you can't know how other people feel, never. You won't know their story until they'll tell you but those people won't tell you their whole story from their past because they are afraid.. and this is unexplainable, you can't explain some things, thoughts or even peoples past's because they don't understand it themselves.

There are also those thoughts which will kind of destroy you and they will hold you back no matter what people tell you, if you don't love yourself or you don't have someone to show you love, you won't believe a thing. Do you know how it feels to be rejected and hurt by someone you really like or even love, huh? Yea, that's the point everybody does, but some are to afraid to move on and try again. It may sound weird or cheesy, whatever you want to call that but there are people who are so afraid that they will stop talking to that person even if they are longing for it. I mean, what could happen? The person doesn't like you but that's the worst case and we should rather ask ourselfes why they couldn't like us... We have to be self confident, we are all amazing! But even if you tell yourself that everyday, you won't feel like it always and surely not if the person's in front of you and you can't say anything.. Anyways, I wanted to say that there is actually no chance for the other person to not like you if you don't even really know each other.. so there is no point of being afraid even if you don't know what to say or how to act as long as you stay yourself there won't be anything wrong! You have nothing to lose and that is the truth!

Still, please don't search for someone because you want to hear how awesome you are or how lovely.. I mean you need to start love yourself first and the point is you don't need someone to be happy or to feel good with yourself, we just have to learn that.

Life is to create yourself!

Our society is a good example for making us feel uncomfortable in our bodies, ever thought about that?
I mean, we aren't models and there ain't muscular perfectly handsome guys out there, even if they want us to be like that. We will forever wish for a miracle, we want to be a disney princess and to get rescued by a knight on a horse to live happily ever after with, but let's be serious. THIS WON'T HAPPEN! We are human beings, we are here for a reason, we have this life for a reason.

I believe everything will make sense in the end and maybe we all will have our happily ever afters, who knows? Right, noone, so don't listen to the people who think they are better or those who can't stand something you do.

You are perfect in your own way! Imperfection is beautiful but we need to learn that because as older you get the more you feel self conscious..